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	<description>a broke forty-something living in her parents' basement -- in Utah</description>
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		<title>By: Richie</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-150</link>
		<dc:creator>Richie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 04:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your post and everyone for your comments. They have helped to cement my belief that even if the Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is not the true church, it is still best organization out there for teaching people how to stand up for what you believe.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your post and everyone for your comments. They have helped to cement my belief that even if the Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is not the true church, it is still best organization out there for teaching people how to stand up for what you believe.</p>
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		<title>By: jodimardesich</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-84</link>
		<dc:creator>jodimardesich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 19:46:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>garin, feel free to use any of the letter. Make sure to send it priority mail with tracking. you will still probably get a response like the one i did.  good luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>garin, feel free to use any of the letter. Make sure to send it priority mail with tracking. you will still probably get a response like the one i did.  good luck!</p>
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		<title>By: Garin Davidson Tripp</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-83</link>
		<dc:creator>Garin Davidson Tripp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 19:18:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The passing of this Prop made me angry, but like you, the final straw for me was learning how much money the Mormon church as a whole and as individuals gave to the campaign for discriminating against non-heteros. After I get back from this Christmas visit with my family I&#039;m resigning as well. Can I copy the formal section of your letter? I myself wasn&#039;t sure how to resign, but your letter is far more than adequate and I admire its firmness. Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The passing of this Prop made me angry, but like you, the final straw for me was learning how much money the Mormon church as a whole and as individuals gave to the campaign for discriminating against non-heteros. After I get back from this Christmas visit with my family I&#8217;m resigning as well. Can I copy the formal section of your letter? I myself wasn&#8217;t sure how to resign, but your letter is far more than adequate and I admire its firmness. Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Cap'n Parrotdead</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-58</link>
		<dc:creator>Cap'n Parrotdead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 20:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was born and raised a Mormon and spent a significant amount of my life trying to believe it.  I never managed to gain that &quot;testimony&quot;, mostly because I have common sense.

When people find out that I&#039;m from Utah, the first thing they want to know is if I&#039;m a Mormon.  When they find out I&#039;m not a believer it&#039;s open season on Mormon bashing.  I used to join in because Mormonism is, indeed, preposterous.  Then I realized that all other religions are just as preposterous.   I learned to discourage the bashing by pointing out that most of the best people I know happen to be Mormon.  

This is why it&#039;s so hard for me to understand the hateful position that the LDS Church has taken regarding Prop 8.  Those same people stand with the church on the issue, and while none of them are inherently hateful, they fail to see the hatefulness of their position.

I&#039;ve never felt sufficiently motivated to write the letter of resignation but I am now reconsidering.  Any by the way, I want all that tithing back that I paid when I was too young to know better, with interest.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was born and raised a Mormon and spent a significant amount of my life trying to believe it.  I never managed to gain that &#8220;testimony&#8221;, mostly because I have common sense.</p>
<p>When people find out that I&#8217;m from Utah, the first thing they want to know is if I&#8217;m a Mormon.  When they find out I&#8217;m not a believer it&#8217;s open season on Mormon bashing.  I used to join in because Mormonism is, indeed, preposterous.  Then I realized that all other religions are just as preposterous.   I learned to discourage the bashing by pointing out that most of the best people I know happen to be Mormon.  </p>
<p>This is why it&#8217;s so hard for me to understand the hateful position that the LDS Church has taken regarding Prop 8.  Those same people stand with the church on the issue, and while none of them are inherently hateful, they fail to see the hatefulness of their position.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never felt sufficiently motivated to write the letter of resignation but I am now reconsidering.  Any by the way, I want all that tithing back that I paid when I was too young to know better, with interest.</p>
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		<title>By: Suspicious Minds</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-40</link>
		<dc:creator>Suspicious Minds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 15:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing your story and for your courage to stand for something.  Won&#039;t you now sign for something too and add your name to the growing numbers of exmormons who are speaking out against bigotry and hatred!

http://signingforsomething.org/blog/?page_id=1784

You are not alone!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing your story and for your courage to stand for something.  Won&#8217;t you now sign for something too and add your name to the growing numbers of exmormons who are speaking out against bigotry and hatred!</p>
<p><a href="http://signingforsomething.org/blog/?page_id=1784" rel="nofollow">http://signingforsomething.org/blog/?page_id=1784</a></p>
<p>You are not alone!</p>
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		<title>By: Proposition 8 Creates an Ex-Mormon &#124; All Reason</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-33</link>
		<dc:creator>Proposition 8 Creates an Ex-Mormon &#124; All Reason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 00:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] her to get her name off of the church membership list:  The day after the election, I wrote my letter of resignation. I sent it to the membership office of the church, telling them that I am no longer One of Them. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] her to get her name off of the church membership list:  The day after the election, I wrote my letter of resignation. I sent it to the membership office of the church, telling them that I am no longer One of Them. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: rebekah</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-27</link>
		<dc:creator>rebekah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 23:25:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. Wow. Wow. I&#039;m so glad I found you via Salon! I&#039;ve weighed withdrawing my membership from the Mormon church for the past 22 years, and always - ALWAYS - talked myself out of it for any number of reasons (they&#039;d contact me MORE! - My parents would be HURT! They&#039;d try to get me to participate in an EXCOMMUNICATION!), but NO MORE! 

I want to be courageous and stance-y and proud like you, Jodi. Thanks for pushing me off that precipice at last. And thanks for your articulate and thoughtful article/post/letter(s). 

True believers in Mormonism will probably never get the irony of how unloving their stance(s) toward all non-heterosexual people, brown people (&quot;forgiven&quot; and given priesthood rights at last or not), and women are. I&#039;m inspired by your upholding the principles of authentic, loving, humanist values.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. Wow. Wow. I&#8217;m so glad I found you via Salon! I&#8217;ve weighed withdrawing my membership from the Mormon church for the past 22 years, and always &#8211; ALWAYS &#8211; talked myself out of it for any number of reasons (they&#8217;d contact me MORE! &#8211; My parents would be HURT! They&#8217;d try to get me to participate in an EXCOMMUNICATION!), but NO MORE! </p>
<p>I want to be courageous and stance-y and proud like you, Jodi. Thanks for pushing me off that precipice at last. And thanks for your articulate and thoughtful article/post/letter(s). </p>
<p>True believers in Mormonism will probably never get the irony of how unloving their stance(s) toward all non-heterosexual people, brown people (&#8220;forgiven&#8221; and given priesthood rights at last or not), and women are. I&#8217;m inspired by your upholding the principles of authentic, loving, humanist values.</p>
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		<title>By: JP</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-26</link>
		<dc:creator>JP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 22:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just earlier this week I sent in my letter of resignation, I too served a mission, in Southern California, and I stopped going to church shortly after returning. I search the scriptures and church history and didn&#039;t like what I found and being gay didn&#039;t help keep me in the church either. I&#039;m one of the lucky thousands that was able to get married before the passage of the hateful propositions. I&#039;ve been married a few month now to the man I have spent the last 20 years of my life. Thank you for your support of our marriage and for posting your story.
JeanPaul</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just earlier this week I sent in my letter of resignation, I too served a mission, in Southern California, and I stopped going to church shortly after returning. I search the scriptures and church history and didn&#8217;t like what I found and being gay didn&#8217;t help keep me in the church either. I&#8217;m one of the lucky thousands that was able to get married before the passage of the hateful propositions. I&#8217;ve been married a few month now to the man I have spent the last 20 years of my life. Thank you for your support of our marriage and for posting your story.<br />
JeanPaul</p>
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		<title>By: Stacy</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-22</link>
		<dc:creator>Stacy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 05:52:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you.. read your piece on Salon &amp; wanted to stop by to show my support.  Plus, you are inspiring others to stand up for what they believe in.. like Jonathon above.

Also, everyone, don&#039;t forget about the nationwide protest this Saturday - you can find out more and where to gather in your city here: http://jointheimpact.wetpaint.com/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you.. read your piece on Salon &amp; wanted to stop by to show my support.  Plus, you are inspiring others to stand up for what they believe in.. like Jonathon above.</p>
<p>Also, everyone, don&#8217;t forget about the nationwide protest this Saturday &#8211; you can find out more and where to gather in your city here: <a href="http://jointheimpact.wetpaint.com/" rel="nofollow">http://jointheimpact.wetpaint.com/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Jonathon Howard</title>
		<link>http://aseriesofsmallfailures.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/heres-my-letter/#comment-17</link>
		<dc:creator>Jonathon Howard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 22:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for writing your words and giving me the courage to take my name off the church&#039;s records as well.  I served 6 months of a mission in Brazil and North Carolina before making myself sick enough to come home, though the church, my family and friends all tried to get me to tough it out...

I&#039;ve been so upset about the prop. 8 decision but I&#039;d completely forgotten that I&#039;m technically still one of them...  I hope you don&#039;t mind if I use your letter as a template for my own?

Thank you !</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for writing your words and giving me the courage to take my name off the church&#8217;s records as well.  I served 6 months of a mission in Brazil and North Carolina before making myself sick enough to come home, though the church, my family and friends all tried to get me to tough it out&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been so upset about the prop. 8 decision but I&#8217;d completely forgotten that I&#8217;m technically still one of them&#8230;  I hope you don&#8217;t mind if I use your letter as a template for my own?</p>
<p>Thank you !</p>
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